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Little Black Linen Dress

It might be the first day of fall, but I'm still sharing this linen dress. The last weekend of summer was beautiful and warm, and very much linen dress weather - which was good as I hadn't worn this yet. I've clearly been buying more things than I have occasions to wear them; a sad reality in my closet. One I should probably take heed to, but you know I've been saying that for months and it would be perfectly appropriate for you to roll your eyes right now.

As I stared at this dress in my closet I started to regret buying it. The return window had since closed along with my fantasies about it. Do you see a piece and imagine where you'd like to wear it and how you'd style it? I always do. I call it my pretend life; where this dress went to Martha's Vineyard and was worn with a straw hat and there was an outdoor patio overlooking the water and a cocktail in my hand.

The reality was that I went to support a local blogger's pop-up shop, sipped champagne out of a plastic cup, and then when I got home, dragged my mom to the yacht club to snap photos before the sun went down.

Looking at these photos, I don't regret buying the dress, just that always let my fantasies slip away.

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Linen Button Front Dress Banana Republic
White Slides Ferragamo via Coco's on the Green
Micro Perry Satchel Rebecca Minkoff c/o Shopbop
Pearl Hoop Earrings Thrifted similar
Gold Chain Thrifted
Gold Rectangle Chain Necklace Etsy
Rhombus Charm Necklace c/o Happiness Boutique
Midi Stackable Diamond Ring c/o AUrate New York
Thin Gold Ring Etsy via Ellyn Blue Jewelry



Missteps

I'm going to be honest, my resolve to not shop this month hasn't been going too well. I know, not even two weeks in and I feel like I've already made half a dozen excuses to buy things. It started off innocently enough, I'd been trying to get these sandals from Target since August but every size I tried wound up too big. I finally settled on a 6.5 wide, and for reference I usually wear an 8.

Then I got invited to the opening of a new Boscov's Department store, and since I had gift card money to shop with, I did... but ended up spending more than I had.

Next I tricked myself into ordering another Goody Box from ThredUP; it hasn't arrived yet, but it would take a great deal of willpower to not keep anything.

Finally I placed an order with Zara for a rust colored bodysuit. I happened to see it on another blogger and it was EXACTLY what I had been looking for, and once again, willpower crumbled.

I suppose if I've learned anything from all the self-help books I've read, it's that I shouldn't let today's failure dictate tomorrow's failure. Everyday is a new chance to start fresh, and try to stay on the path I want to be on. Ultimately I want to be a person who buys new clothes and doesn't feel rife with guilt, but rather enjoys those things, and doesn't let them hang unworn forever. (Which I kinda do.)

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Dress Marc by Marc Jacobs thrifted similar
Black Pumps "Natalie" Naturalizer
Bucket Bag "Johnny" Danse Lente
Tear Earrings Etsy custom design via Bonanza Studio
 Bracelet The Cavernous Jewelry Box
Thin Gold Ring Etsy via Ellyn Blue Jewelry
Gold Herkimer Diamond Ring c/o Lumo
Chevron Ring Etsy via Silver Canyon Jewelry
Sunglasses "Meteor" Ray-Ban c/o TJMaxx




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Fall Closet Refresh for Less

Thank you BJ’s Wholesale Club for sponsoring this post. 

Even as the most devoted summer lover, I know it can't last forever, and inevitably the pull of the new fall fashions will have me craving leather jackets and dark neutrals.

Feeling compelled to buy a new wardrobe each season is probably one of my bigger downfalls, but one I can always justify by finding the best deals. Deals which are sometimes in places I would least expect, like BJ's Wholesale Club, my new one-stop shopping destination for fall apparel. Normally I love shopping there to fill my cart with discounted Lindt chocolate bars, massive bags of Bark Thins, and jars of chocolate covered almonds (clearly I have my priorities when it comes to bulk shopping). However when I went into the apparel section of my local BJ's, I found myself giving a second glance to the amazing prices, quality, and brand names I have always known and liked.

For me, the number one fall accessory is a leather jacket. I know I probably have too many at this point, but what is one more? Especially when it's only $25. Naturally this is a vegan option, but I loved all the detailing, especially the knit panels which will come in handy when layering over a thick sweater. For now, I snagged this perfect little black dress by Kenneth Cole Reaction for $17, which is over 75% off the MSRP. This dress is just the kind of piece I love to have when I don't know what to wear - it's not fussy, can be easily dressed up or down, and has pockets. While I was at BJ’s, I poured through the piles of denim and trousers - lots of legging styles, tons of sizes, I even noted some of the jeans were offered in short and tall inseams.

Additionally, there were accessories options such as shoes and purses. When I spotted this charging wallet for $11 I knew it was coming home with me. No matter how much they improve phone technology, there always seems to be a struggle to get through a day of travel without my phone's battery hovering around 10%, plus the slim shape and practicality of a wallet made this a must have. Having a fully charged phone meant I could text my mom and see if she if needed any groceries. Being able to pick up organic milk, cage free eggs, baby spinach, and a huge hunk of pecorino romano meant saving my mom a trip to the grocery store so that we'd have time to watch a movie together - and devour all that chocolate I mentioned earlier.

Finally I headed to the shoes, with the thought that my favorite black flats might be nearing the end of their lives, I tried on these black loafers by Jones New York the moment I spotted them. They have a nice padded insole, and easily proved worthy of a day of walking. At only $25 I could consider grabbing them in the cognac color as well.

Before I left to head home, I used the opportunity to fill up my gas tank, as BJ's members can save from 10 to 20 cents a gallon on gas. I also checked out the Hallmark cards, which are discounted a dollar off their list price and found Halloween cards for my nephew and niece. With discounts like these, and so many more, my membership can easily save me up to $500 a year on things I'd need to buy anyway.

I had such a successful shopping trip at BJ's because of the unbeatable value and assortment of apparel, from outerwear and accessories to footwear. I'm really excited about my new fall clothes, and I still feel really impressed with the total on my receipt - even considering everything else I bought. Because I don't want to keep these savings all to myself, anyone who decides to sign up for a BJ's membership using my referral link here will get a $25 gift card!

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of CLEVER and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.


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Black Dress Kenneth Cole Reaction c/o BJ's
Faux Leather Jacket Sebby Collection c/o BJ's
Black Loafers Jones New York c/o BJ's
Charging Wallet Adrienne Vittadini c/o BJ's

I was selected for this opportunity as a member of CLEVER and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.

Ten

Today marks ten years since I started this blog. It's strange to think how such a significant portion of my life has been documented and shared with the world. I'm so grateful to all the wonderful people and experiences this blog has brought into my life - more than I ever could have imagined when I started, when I was just a thrifty shopper wanting to document my discounted sartorial scores.

I know lately it's the trend to cull any and all old blog posts, instagram posts, tweets, and the likes from our archives, which no longer reflect only where we are right now, and pretend all the missteps that got us here didn't happen. I'm not keen to do that. Not that I'm saying I want you to delve into my decade old blog posts (really, please don't) but I also know that feeling of curiosity, of wanting to know what was in the past, and I feel disappointed when some bloggers who've been in this space for as long as I have made their origins inaccessible. (If I've now peaked your interest, maybe start at 2013?)

Approaching this milestone has had me thinking more and more about the future of this blog, and the kinds of posts I want to share. Lately reading blog posts have left me feeling starved for content, a sense that all I'm seeing are attempts to improve SEO rather than contribute something meaningful. Not that every post has to be meaningful, just honest. There is so much pressure to present a life of perfection, to appear effortless even when it requires a great deal of effort, to only present struggles once they have been worked through and can be wrapped up in a neat little package with a flourish of positivity.

As much as keeping up this blog has been about me, it's also about every person who takes a moment of their day to read and share their thoughts, so I will close this 10th anniversary post with a simple question, why do you read blogs?

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Off The Shoulder Dress Loft
Huarache Mules "Camila" Rebecca Minkoff
Round Rattan Bag Etsy
Gold Ball Earrings Kohl's
Coin Pendant Necklace Julie Vos
Bracelets The Cavernous Jewelry Box
Thin Gold Ring Etsy via Ellyn Blue Jewelry
 Sunglasses "Caravan" Ray-Ban





Organic Results

I wore this outfit the other week to head up to Stamford, CT and pick out some local organic food at Mike's Organic Delivery. I know a little black dress with heels and a big hat isn't really what most people would reach for on a day of basically shopping and errands. I also stopped in J.Crew and left with this belt (it was on clearance!). Then I had a close call with the hat - it blew off my head, into the street and nearly was run over by a firetruck. Has anyone invented a way to keep hats on your head? If not, I guess I need to!

Since I wasn't in Mike's Organic Delivery radius, I had to visit their warehouse in person, which also led to addition of flowers to my cart, which are not listed anywhere on their website that I can find. I am not a fashion blogger if I don't carry flowers unnecessarily.

All you are seeing here are the flowers and the cute little Mike's Organic shopping bag, but I've got a super yummy pasta recipe featuring all the amazing veggies I picked out (save for the carrots) on Cooking in Cashmere today!

If you are a Connecticut resident in Fairfield County, you can sign up for a CSA or on demand deliveries from Mike's Organic. All the produce I selected was delicious and fresh - and of course local!

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Off The Shoulder Dress Loft
Leather Loop Belt J.Crew
Vintage Japanese Bamboo Bag via eBay similar vintage
Palma Wide Fedora Lack of Color
 Circle Earrings c/o AUrate New York
Fatima Bracelet c/o Gorjana similar
Chevron Ring Etsy via Silver Canyon Jewelry
Thin Gold Ring Etsy via Ellyn Blue Jewelry
Nail Color "Fishnet Stockings" Essie




25 Summer Dresses Under $25

Now that it's finally starting to move into dress weather, I find myself guilty of shopping one of my favorite places for affordable dresses, TJMaxx. It's usually the first section I head to when I visit, and this time of year it's pretty well stocked. At my last visit I took home this little black dress with very fun sleeves, along with another gingham dress in a fit and flare style. There are few places you can get such a huge selection of great dresses under $25, and while I couldn't share my favorites from my local store, I spent far too much time perusing their website and found so many dresses for a steal. Increase your budget a little and treat yourself to designers like Joie, Free People, Theory, and French Connection.

Which are your favorites?




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Balloon Sleeve Dress Thyme & Honey via TJMaxx similar
Nude Pumps "Natalie" Naturalizer
Straw Clutch Rodo Italy via Goodwill similar
Hammered Gold Pendant Mark similar
Fatima Bracelet c/o Gorjana similar
Thin Gold Ring Etsy via Ellyn Blue Jewelry




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