Friday Five Under $50

A short post week here - shorter than it's already been shortened to - because it's been cold, and I haven't wanted to leave the house. On Monday, when I had to go out for a visit to the Apple store, I had every intention of taking outfit photos, however I texted my friend to see if she could meet me for coffee after my genius bar appointment. As I was catching up with her the sun was slowly setting, and when she suggested going to see a movie, which after a quick check on my phone was going to be starting in 15 minutes, I knew outfit photos were just not going to happen.

Lack of blog posts aside, I probably had the most fun on a January bank holiday that I've had in years. We went to see I, Tonya, which I enjoyed, and evidently you can get wine in the movie theaters now, so a plastic cup of pinot grigio almost seemed obligatory.

I'm definitely thinking that wrap top will be making it's way into my cart during the next sale at Banana Republic, and how cute is the ring bag from Target? I love the little scarf on the ring - I'm going to have to try tying one on to my own ring bag!

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Striped Wrap Top, $50 at Banana Republic
Crossbody Ring Bag, $35 at Target
Tassel Hoop Earrings, $26 at Mango
Silk Scarf, $10 at Ann Taylor
Triple Buckle Booties, $30 at TJMaxx

Leopard fur coat

Back in the heat of September when I was hastily packing up my apartment and trying to decide which of my clothes were going into storage, along with all my furniture, I had to significantly pare down my outerwear collection. Admittedly, it dominated the whole of our shared coat closet. (I am always rationalizing that winter is long, and variety is key to beating my winter style doldrums.) I know being without them for one winter isn't the end of the world, but still, I'm missing them.

Of course my leopard fur coat was not going into storage - it's classic and warm, it was one of those pieces where I tried it on in the store, left without it, and drove back a day later when I couldn't stop thinking about it.

I'm not entirely sure what my rational was when I boxed up 90% of my winter accessories, hats, scarfs, gloves, ect. for the storage unit, so when I spotted these rust colored leather gloves on clearance at TJMaxx, I tossed them in my cart. Aside from my current infatuation with the rust orange shade, I thought it would be nice to have gloves in shade other than black. While the leather is soft, it's nowhere near as supple as the leather on my Glove.ly pair, nor are they lined with cashmere, but for $14, I can't complain too much!

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Camel Cashmere Boatneck Sweater Thrifted similar
Grey Jeans Gap similar
Grey Over the Knee Boots Ivanka Trump similar
Leopard Fur Coat JCP similar
Suede Accordion Bag Banana Republic similar
Rust Orange Leather Gloves TJMaxx similar
Sunglasses "Meteor" Ray-Ban c/o TJMaxx




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Friday Five Under $50 and Word of the Year

Focus 
A lot of bloggers having been sharing words of the year - a word they have chosen to represent the mindset they want to have for the year. It wasn't something I'd thought about doing, but when paying close attention to my behaviors lately, I've realized that I need to focus.

Life is full of distractions. Sometimes I feel like I start to do something, and an hour later I find I've gotten distracted, started half a dozen other things, and not finished the first. I'll pick up my phone to see what time it is, instead look at my notifications, several minutes later put my phone down, and then realize I still don't know what time it is. Trying to limit phone time is something I want to do.

I often wonder how I find the energy to sink tons of time and effort into fruitless and frivious tasks, like trying to find the perfect ballet-inspired wrap sweater (hint, not this one, this one, or this one). Yet when it comes to sitting down and actually writing my blog post, I make excuses and procrastinate (too tired, too hungry, need to let the dog out). I know if I focused more on the blog, I could make it better. Even if the idea of it ever being more than a hobby is off the table, being a better expression of me and creating content that I truly love, which doesn't feel rushed or forced, should be higher up on my priority list than a sweater.

If I focused more on my job search, I could have applied to half a dozen jobs by now instead of one. If I focused more on the positive things in my life, I could probably be happier. As it is still Friday, I want to leave you with some fun, inexpensive things to shop for, and I also thought I'd share this article, "Things to give up if you want to be successful" because I liked a lot of the quotes and there was definitely some truth to it.


Baggu Round Canvas Shoulder Bag, $45 at Nordstrom
Short Sleeve Blouse, $10 at H&M
BP Split Leg Striped Pants, $55 (oops) at Nordstrom
Double Ring Belt, $7 at H&M
Dip Front Heeled Mules, $30 at Target

Liquid Gold at Red Bee

Over the weekend I attended a honey tasting at Red Bee Apiary in Weston, CT. The beekeeper, author and honey sommelier, Marina Marchese first gave us a background on the honey bees and how she found herself trading city life for farm life after her first experience being around a hive.

Honey bees aren't native to the United States, and Marina's bees are Italian. The worker bees are all female, and don't stray much more than four miles from their hive. Because of that fact, farmers can plant four miles of a specific flower which will result in the bees creating a honey with a distinctive flavor profile.

Four our honey tasting, we tried Orange Blossom honey, which is floral, fruity and rich in vitamin C with goat cheese, rosemary, and mandarin. I really enjoyed this pairing, all the flavors worked well together, sweet, tangy, savory. Of course I love goat cheese, so I might be biased.

Then we sampled Blueberry Blossom honey, which is fruity and a good source of antioxidants with brie and blueberries. Even though I'm not the biggest blueberry fan, this was delicious too.

The darkest and most unusual honey sampling was the Buckwheat honey - robust and a good source of iron, the smell was unlike a typical honey and it reminded me a lot of molasses. We sampled it with a piece of dark chocolate and almonds.

The most common honey, clover, was presented in a different way, in its crystallized state. The Creamy Clover honey that would take longer to melt on the tongue presented an amazing sensory experience and paired with shredded coconut was like eating the most delectable dessert.

Finally we sampled raw Gold leaf honeycomb, another unique way to enjoy honey with bits of the honeycomb.

Marina also uses the honey and beeswax to create skincare products, which we got to sample in the second part of the event. The balms are so moisturizing and I got a sample of the lip balm and body oil to take home. Because it's been so cold and dry lately, these are just what I need!

Honey is such a unique product, it can offer some health benefits, especially if you have honey from your local bees, as it can help reduce seasonal allergies. Now that I know all the work that goes into creating honey, I understand why it's referred to as liquid gold, and I really enjoyed experiencing all the different varieties of honey. I also happily brought home a jar of honey from Marina's italian bees, and I'm excited that I can enjoy it every day!

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Floral Shirtdress Banana Republic
Merino Wool Sweater Gap
Black Jeans Old Navy
Booties "Calixta" Cole Haan similar
Bag "Lewis Drive Michela" Kate Spade similar
Leather Pom Matine
Double O-Ring Belt Express
Gold Herkimer Diamond Ring c/o Lumo
Chevron Ring Etsy via Silver Canyon Jewelry




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Dressing for the cold

I've heard that there is no bad weather, only poor clothing choices. But after two weeks spent well below freezing everyday, I'd argue strongly for bad weather. Admittedly some clothing choices are more sensible than others. You won't see me out there with bare feet in a pair of pumps, cute as they may be. The taller the boot, the better, as far as I'm concerned.

I've always been fond of wool coats - as in, I've never owned one of those parkas meant to keep you warm and as covered as possible. I imagine one of those might have been nice these past few weeks, but I did okay in my wool. Longer is better, and always with some type of hat, glove, and scarf. This fur scarf was a christmas gift. Faux fur is great because it looks stylish while still being remarkably warm.

Underneath it all, a silk base layer under the sweater, fleece lined knee socks under jeans, and naturally, when not taking photos, all buttoned, and zipped straight to the throat.

It's supposed to get up to 50° later this week, so naturally we'll all be out getting ice cream.

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The Rundown
Houndstooth Coat Kohl's similar
Merino Wool Sweater Gap
Black Jeans Old Navy
Boots "Jabine" Adrienne Vittadini similar
Huntley Tote c/o Joie similar
Wide Brim Fedora Goorin Bros. via ebay similar
Double O-Ring Belt Express
Faux Fur Scarf Target
Leather iPhone Gloves Glove.ly




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Connecticut Blogger Holiday Soiree

This post is going up much later than I'd anticipated, (where did the last two weeks go?) but better late than never, right?

A week before Christmas the CT Blogger Collective hosted a Holiday party at Flora in West Hartford. There was a huge turn out - I had no idea there were so many bloggers in Connecticut! I am continually impressed at how quickly Nonee, the groups founder was able to assemble the members and host three events last year, with a fourth event this coming Sunday. Seriously, she has my utmost respect and admiration. When I arranged a blogger meetup and there were six of us, I was pretty excited.

I met and chatted with some beautiful, talented bloggers and if I've snapped you in a candid shot, I'm sorry. I didn't take as many photos as I would have liked to, but there is just always that dilemma of focusing on being the photographer, or trying to be social, and I really did want to have some conversations that evening. And eat - there was quite the spread of delicious food, and I'm not one to hold back to try and be polite or proper. I got seconds, for sure. There was also some great live music for the first half of the evening which was fun and festive.

Even though it was an hour drive for me and it was a Monday evening, I'm happy I went. Plus it gave me an excuse to buy these pretty satin pants, which I need to exchange for a petite, and they literally arrived that day, giving me just enough time to rush home from work, tear open the package and cross my fingers they'd fit, before jumping in my car so as not to be too late.

Thanks to Nonee for putting the whole event together, the guest speakers, Kallie of But First Coffee, Alycia of CT Eats Out, Sandra of The Rustic Life, Rachel of Pinteresting Plans, and the sponsors, FloraMelanie Ruth Photography, BakaFana, Anika Zebron Design, Java Skin CareApril Marin Accessories, Ooh La La Boutique.

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The Rundown
Scalloped Cami J.Crew Factory
Merino Wool Cardigan Gap
Satin Pants Ann Taylor
Black Pumps "Natalie" Naturalizer
Necklace "Scottie" LuxbyUK
Ring The Cavernous Jewelry Box
Nail Color "Twill Seeker" Essie




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2018 Goals

A chilly start to the new year, yesterday was spent mostly indoors enjoying too many leftover Christmas cookies. 

A change in a calendar date doesn't typically carry much weight in my mind. I don't usually set resolutions, and when I have, they often get abandoned. This year however, I would like to set some goals for myself. I read a number of self-help books these past few months, and while none of them seemed to offer a clear cut instruction manual (wishful thinking), the overwhelming theme was that nothing will change until I change something. 

This year I need to change my job. I need to work somewhere with opportunity for growth, and somewhere I can make enough money to live on my own. If I only change one thing this year, that needs to be it.

I'd also like to make a better effort to carve out more time to read. I think one book a month would be reasonable - I'm starting out with Aziz Ansari's "Modern Romance", and already have "Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine" by Gail Honeyman waiting for me at the library, since a few bloggers I love recently recommended it.

The last goal I'd like to set for myself is to go to the gym twice a week. I was doing really well with that for about six months, but stopped with my recent address change. I have a membership to The Y, and the one here only offers 'my' class once a week instead of twice like the other did. Which means I'll have to try a new class, without the security blanket of my sister accompanying forcing me to go.

Hopefully I can work towards these goals this year, and maybe they will change and grow, and maybe the blog will change and grow... and maybe I will too. Thanks to all of you who commented on my last post, I literally got a little teary-eyed reading each one. You guys are the best. Thank you. 


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The Rundown
Striped Sweater Joe Fresh similar
Navy Coat Mark New York via South Moon Under
Yoga Jeans Second Denim via Coco & Vera's Giveaway
Booties "Calixta" Cole Haan similar
Fur Pom Knit Hat Amazon similar
Leather iPhone Gloves Glove.ly
Willis Bag Vintage Coach thrifted similar
Faux Fur Pom Pom similar
Sunglasses "Meteor" Ray-Ban c/o TJMaxx





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